Love, we all have our own definition of love with a different approaches to it. But what we all have common in it is feelings. With our different ways of expressing love. Some express this by giving special treatments like beautiful flowers, and gifts to their loved ones some show love in their behavior by changing their nature to become more compatible with their loved ones, and some express that in their small gestures of care and habits regardless of the relation love is something that remains the constant in all. Yet it sometimes gives rise to agony in many ways.
Agony in simple terms means extreme pain and suffering whether it is physical or mental. And when it comes from love it overtakes our emotional intelligence and makes us do things that we believed we couldn't do to that extent. As initially, it takes over our mental stability, not like it makes us go crazy or things like that but instead it deviates us from making rational decisions. And makes us think with a very different mindset that only thinks about getting out of this agony but mostly at that time we didn't know of the other outcomes or the setbacks of those decisions. Similarly, some may take it up to a different extent as they start getting used to the physical pain and suffering in pursuit of happiness neglecting the rationality of the situation and decisions that they are taking. Which is a much more painful sight to see.
And as for the combination of pain and love, there's a saying that nothing hurts more than a broken heart. As wounds heal and what's broken can be fixed but still leaves cracks. That's why we often use the terms that you can hide your scars but you can't erase them. The same goes when we face agony in love. As it shatters our light of hope and pushes us into the abyss of nothingness which murders our senses of feeling any emotion other than sadness and often gives us the virtue of not feeling anything and a will to just keep living on our without any emotional support and affection. As it takes away one's self-being and fills their mind with the insecurity of trusting other people even when they don't mean any harm and only want to help them out.
So, ever in life always think about the decisions that you take as a simple decision may push the other person on the way of agonizing life from where that escape is very harsh. As the person may get back to his normal self but will always stay traumatized by that one feeling.
Written By
Sachin Rawat